What recurring patterns do you see in how dentists respond to workload and burn-out and recognise when they need support?
One pattern is that dentists often keep going long after they have noticed that something is wrong. The pressures arrive from different directions—clinical work, patients, teams, finances and home—and each can seem manageable on its own. Together, they can become overwhelming.
In my own experience, warning signs included feeling unlike myself, becoming more emotionally fragile and withdrawing from people because I no longer had the energy to connect. Those signs can look different for each person, but the tendency to dismiss them is something I recognise in many conversations with dentists.
Asking for help should be a normal part of being a professional. We seek guidance to improve our clinical work; we should be able to seek guidance on leading teams, managing stress and taking care of our own well-being too.
You often speak about “work–life harmony” rather than “work–life balance”. What does work–life harmony mean in dentistry, and what can clinicians do when they feel pulled between patient care, business demands and their personal life?
I speak about “harmony” because “balance” sounds static, and life isn’t. Some weeks, your career will need more of you; at other times, your family or your health will. Harmony means noticing what is needed and making conscious choices, rather than running on autopilot.
I use a 3 + 5 formula. The three steps are accept, check and choose. First, acknowledge what is happening. Then check what is within your control, what the situation is costing you and what you can learn from it. Finally, choose where to put your energy and what you need to let go.
The five pillars are self-care, self-awareness, relationships, free time, and career and purpose. Self-care includes sleep, rest, movement and nutrition. Self-awareness helps you recognise your patterns and limits. Relationships remind you to stay connected to people beyond your patients and team. Free time gives you space to be a person outside dentistry. Career and purpose invite you to ask: what does success actually mean to me? You don’t have to get all five perfect, but you do need to notice when one has been neglected for too long.
What changes would you like to see in dental education and professional culture to better support dentists and their teams?
I would teach the human side of dentistry throughout dental education: how to communicate effectively, develop self-awareness, handle conflict, lead others, manage expectations and cope with setbacks. These skills could be revisited each year through discussion, role-play and real clinical scenarios. Students might not appreciate every lesson immediately, but they would know where to turn when those challenges appear.
I would also like practice owners and teams to make conversations about workload and well-being part of ordinary working life. We put enormous effort into developing technical excellence. We should give the same serious attention to the skills that help dentists work with people and sustain their careers.
If you could give one piece of advice to a newly qualified dentist, what would it be?
Find a mentor or coach you trust—someone who can guide you, challenge you and give you a safe place to talk things through. You do not have to figure everything out alone.
Stay curious about what excites you. You don’t need to be excellent in every area of dentistry. Get to know yourself as well as you get to know your profession. That understanding will help you build a career that fits who you are.
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